Life as a College Student in Philadelphia During the Coronavirus Pandemic

Life during the coronavirus pandemic has most definitely been a whirlwind! With social distancing protocols being enforced and encouraged, many of us would not even think to go to a city during this time. On the same token, there are many people like my friend Violet who are students and/or live in a big city regularly. With our current precautions being put in place to slow the spread of the novel Covid-19, city life has definitely changed, but it is most definitely still a thing. Today, Violet will be sharing her experiences living in a city *something that is unthinkable to some* during the coronavirus pandemic.

Tell me a bit about yourself!

I am a junior biology major at Saint Joseph’s University in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania!  I also have minors in Spanish and history.  Some of my favorite things about going to college are being a part of organizations on campus and exploring the city!  My favorite organizations are Irish Dance Club and Phi Sigma Pi.

Where is your hometown?

I am from Fairfax Station, Virginia.

What city and school are you attending?

I attend Saint Joseph’s University in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania.

What is your living situation like in Philadelphia?

I live in an off-campus house with my three other roommates.  We are within walking distance from campus!

Describe to me what life in Philadelphia was like before Covid-19

Before Covid-19, I really enjoyed both on-campus and off-campus activities.  At our school, we have had many events such as concerts, plays, basketball games, formals, etc.  Unfortunately, these events have been cancelled or a select few have been virtual.  I also have enjoyed going into the city to go thrifting, out to eat, or explore different areas.  One of the great things about the city is that I never run out of things to do- one of my favorite spots is South Street!  I used to take public transportation or an Uber fairly often, but I have not done this much since the pandemic.  Additionally, I used to attend in person classes every day.

Now, describe to me how life in Philadelphia is during the Covid-19 pandemic once you came back

Life in Philadelphia during the pandemic has been an adjustment!  Like I mentioned, we are no longer having on-campus events.  Thus far, there havebeen a few virtual events such as a Q&A with John Mulaney (which was awesome).  I have gone into the city as well!  Luckily, one of my roommates has a car this year, so we have not had to take public transportation as much.  This has been great because we were concerned about possibly contracting Covid-19 while taking public transportation.  I have taken an Uber a couple of times, but the drivers have always been great about wearing masks and not allowing passengers to sit in the front seat!  In the city, most people wear masks and keep themselves socially distanced.  In addition, I have a course schedule with online classes and few in person classes.  My in person classes have much less students and are socially distanced!

What are some of the key changes to Philadelphia life during the pandemic?

In Philadelphia, people have been taking the pandemic very seriously.  For example, most restaurants are still only allowing outdoor seating.  There has also been a mask order for many months, which has helped Covid-19 cases remain relatively low in comparison to other parts of the country.

How are people reacting to the current social distancing guidelines in Philadelphia and on your college campus?

For the most part, students have been compliant with mask mandates and social distancing guidelines.  There have been a few instances of students having large gatherings, but they have faced disciplinary action and/or sent into a mandatory quarantine.  My school is taking the pandemic very seriously, especially because other Philadelphia schools have already had to send their students home.  In general, people in Philadelphia have also been cooperative with social distancing guidelines.  Throughout the spring and summer, the city was able to keep the rate of transmission moderately low, but there has been a recent spike in cases.

How does life during Covid-19 in a city differ from life outside a city?

There are not too many differences, or at least in my experience.  Both Virginia and Philadelphia have mask mandates and enforced social distancing.  The main difference is that Philadelphia is much more crowded.  When I go into the city, I am always sure to distance myself from other people.  I have also noticed that there are longer lines to enter stores, because stores reach capacity very quickly.

Do you feel that it is easier to practice social distancing protocols outside of a city?

In certain situations, it is definitely easier to practice social distancing protocols outside of a city.  For instance, social distancing with public transportation or in busy areas can be difficult.  Overall, social distancing is not too difficult because places are very strict about not exceeding their capacity so that people can easily social distance.  In my opinion, the hardest part has been socially distancing in college.  I have definitely not been able to see my friends as often, but it is much more important that we keep everyone safe!

How have you gotten creative with taking precautions in Philadelphia?

Fortunately, one of my roommates was able to bring a car this year so we do not have to take public transportation as often!  I have also been trying to spend more time outside- especially when hanging out with other people (small groups only and masks on!).

Do you feel that the importance of wearing a mask, especially in a big city like Philadelphia helps when taking precautions?

Absolutely, masks always help!  Philadelphia has actually been very cautious when it comes to masks and precautions.  The city has be good about enforcing mask orders, which has allowed Philadelphia to be one of the cities with the lowest rates of transmission in the country.

What would you tell somebody who is considering visiting a city during the pandemic?

I would tell someone who is considering visiting a city to take every precaution in their power. Cities can get quite crowded, especially when taking public transportation.  It is important to always remain aware of your surroundings so that you can keep yourself distanced from other people and stay safe during the pandemic.

What would you tell yourself before this pandemic?

I would tell myself to not have any expectations!  Obviously, at the beginning of this pandemic, I did not expect it to last this long.  I now know that this pandemic has the potential to last much longer, especially if people do not socially distance themselves!

What are your most important takeaways to living in a city during a pandemic?

Most importantly, I would say that it is still possible to have fun while taking important precautions.  There are so many safe activities like having a picnic in a park, going for a hike, or exploring less crowded areas of the city.  Finding ways to relax is important (especially in a pandemic!).  Life is so stressful right now, so it is great to find some sources of enjoyment!

Life is definitely crazy in these times and living in a city does not help alleviate that fact. However, there are many ways to still cope with the new changes in our lives and adapt to this new and temporary way of living just as Violet described. City life will definitely look different after the pandemic, but however we choose to make our life on this planet is the outlook that we will bring. If the coronavirus hasn’t taught you anything so far, then I hope that Violet’s experiences in Philadelphia shine some light into your life.

XOXO – Katie <3

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My First Month of College During Covid-19

To think that I would ever be going to classes while wearing a face mask or through Zoom is truly above me. At this moment, I feel extremely fortunate that Meredith College has not moved all classes permanently online for the Fall semester like many of the other colleges around me. While I feel really lucky to still be on campus a month in, it is still pretty tough to be taking on Senior year in the midst of the coronavirus pandemic. Today, I am sharing my one month reflection of being at college during Covid-19.

It is most definitely weird to be back on campus without the social aspect that my professors, classmates, and I really cherish. At Meredith, social events play an extremely vital role in the college experience, just like at pretty much every other college. To say that I miss that part of being at college would be an understatement, as I am a social person by nature – actually very very very social. Pre-pandemic, I was definitely that girl who hosted parties and gatherings of all kinds in her apartment. Not to mention the several activities that I did with others off campus as well. At the same time, I do know that in-person social events are put on hold right now and for good reason. That being said, I have strived to make it work for the time being, with getting together with friends both a virtual and/or social distanced environment. While it most definitely is not the same for me this semester

In terms of classes, I have had a mixture of in-person and online – 3 in-person and four online. Over the first few weeks of classes, I decided to switch two of my in-person classes to all online. Oddly enough, I have really enjoyed the online environment for classes during the pandemic. Although it was forced, I really like having the flexibility and honestly not having to leave my apartment or even bedroom for that matter to accomplish what I need to. At the moment, I have one in-person class and I chose to keep it in-person, as I have a bond with my classmates and professors in it. This class is also a favorite of mine, so it really worked out to keep it in-person.

Since I do have a lot more free time on my hands, I have been using it in many different ways. First, I have truly been able to invest in my platform here on The Pink Chickadee. Having the ability to be able to share what I do with y’all has truly been a blessing during this entire pandemic! At the same time, I have been able to invest in looking towards the future, through making connections at potential graduate schools and with potential employers. I have been conducting a ton of informational interviews with graduate school students at programs that I am interested in as well as people at companies that peak my interest. In my free time, I usually spend it crafting, which has become a new favorite hobby of mine! To be able to invest in myself so much more than before has really been a blessing even while in classes during this pandemic.

Looking back on my first month of classes of my Senior year, there have been many ups and downs, but one thing that remains for sure is the friends that I made, the family that I have, and the degree that I am attaining. Senior year, Coronavirus edition, was definitely not in my plan for my four years of college. However, like many things in life, plans can and will change and we have to be OKAY with that. Even though there is SO MUCH uncertainty at the moment, I do know that things will always work out in ways that we could have never even imagined. Simply hopping along for the ride and knowing that everyone around me, even if it is virtually, is going through similar things is extremely comforting and the way to go!

XOXO – Katie <3

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Adjusting to College Life During the Coronavirus Pandemic

Back in early March, all of our lives were transformed due to the coronavirus pandemic. Myself included, many of us assumed that we would be back to our pre-pandemic lives by the time the next school year starts. However, college life during the Fall 2020 semester and potentially the Spring 2021 semester will look completely different than we ever envisioned. As somebody who is about to start her Senior year of college in the middle of a pandemic, it is HARD to know that my college experience will be extremely different my last year than I ever thought it could. Since I have been back at college for almost two weeks now, I know that the adjustment into college life amid a pandemic will not be an easy one but it is an important one for us all to do.

It’s OKAY To Grief

During this pandemic, we have ALL lost something one way or another. There are several engaged couples who have had to cancel or postpone their wedding days, many people of all ages have had to cancel or postpone trips, celebrations, concerts, events of all kinds, and all of the above. Similarly, we college students are losing a lot during Covid-19. We are losing the many moments that we thought we would have this semester – everything from parties, socials, hangouts, retreats, meetings, and simply going to class in-person. Whatever we may be losing, know that it is OKAY to grief and feel the pain. In fact, ALL OF US are feeling it. The biggest piece of advice that my mother gave me is to feel the pain and sadness, as it will help one process it better. The same thing goes for a college semester that does not look anything like the one we had anticipated. If you feel that you need to talk to somebody about your grief about this new and different semester, then reach out to a friend, family member, or even a counselor on or off your college campus. Many people are willing to help, as we’re all in this together!

Use The Slowdown as an Opportunity

It most definitely sucks that the coronavirus has taken over practically every aspect of our lives. However, it should not be something that takes over your life. Although it is normal and okay to grief, it should not necessarily take over your life and the joy out of what is right in front of you. Personally, I had a really hard time adjusting to life during quarantine and the slow down. I am one who is such a social butterfly – I host people ALLL the time if I am not out and about. The slow down is HARD and I get it 100000%. We have all lost something, but it should not deter us from enjoying what is right in front of us. Use this time to do the things that you have always wanted to do. If it were not for the slow down, it would not have been able to recode and relaunch The Pink Chickadee. My platform on The Pink Chickadee has been such a blessing in my life, and I have to thank the Covid-19 pandemic for it. At the same time, I have also decided to focus on my own self growth and self love. I have really taken the initiative to take care of myself before anyone else, which has been a golden thing in my life that I sadly never put in the time to do before the pandemic hit. As for yourselves, use this time to do the same thing: think of something’s that you have always wanted to do yet never did and JUST DO IT. In the long run, you have nothing to lose!!!

Be Creative

Since the Covid-19 pandemic started, I have gotten real creative with ways to meet my social needs yet still maintain my social distance. Zoom has become my best friend, despite the severe Zoom fatigue that I feel regularly. 2020 is most definitely the year for all-things virtual and let’s definitely try to make the best of it. The possibilities are ENDLESS!!! If you need any ideas, check out my blog posts How To Get Involved in College During the Coronavirus Pandemic, 11 Social Distancing-Approved Gatherings, and Fun Ideas To Spice Up Your Next Picnic for more inspiration!

The Bonds We Create

All of us current college students each have one thing in common: we are college students at college during the coronavirus pandemic. We have all seen our lives transform in the blink of an eye, especially at our social college age. Our lively lives have shifted to anything but the liveliness that we saw before March 2020. The Covid-19 pandemic is going to bring us all many more struggles than we have previously seen since it started. We have all faced several obstacles during this time and have been tested way beyond our limits. But, remember, every college student at the moment is in the same boat as yourself, whether or not you realize it. Make the most of your time with your classmates and bridge those connections with others. Most of us are struggling during this time, so why not struggle together?!

Reach Out to Others

Life during Covid-19 is HARD! It’s hard for all of us. That does not mean that you have to go through all of the challenges of our new coronavirus world alone though. There are SO many people out there to help you during this time. Below, I have listed some of the many resources that are available to you:

The struggle is most definitely real when adjusting to college life during the coronavirus pandemic. Though it may be hard to adjust to this new and different world, the most important thing is that you DO still have access to an education during these trying times. Whether or not you are on your college campus this semester, strive to make the best of any situation that may pop up. Be sure to keep your connections with others going strong during this time and beyond – we all need one another now more than ever. This too shall pass, but we are ALL in this together. While a pandemic was in none of our plans for the Fall 2020 semester, it is now and we will have one another to connect with during these trying times.

XOXO – Katie <3

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How College is Different During the Coronavirus Pandemic

The coronavirus pandemic has drastically changed the way that college life looks. While it will only be temporary, it is definitely an adjustment. As someone who has been on her college campus living in her on-campus apartment before classes start for a week now, I can definitely say that college campuses look quite a bit different during a pandemic. Today, I will be sharing how college campuses differ while in the coronavirus pandemic.

Visitor Restrictions

Attending a small college with only two entrances for cars means that pandemic or not there are only a few ways to enter the campus. Upon entering campus, everyone is stopped by Campus Security, and the back gate entrance is locked. Whereas, in the dorms and on-campus apartments, the only off-campus guests that are allowed are move-in helpers. Moreover, the number of guests per dorm room/apartment is also greatly capped. Upon coming to campus, my classmates and I that are living on campus had to sign a contract that said that we would abide by the guest restrictions. By limiting the amount of visitors on campus, my school can better contain and limit the spread of Covid-19.

Mask Requirements

Whoever thought that in the year 2020 that masks would be the new black was seriously one in a million! I surely never anticipated that I would be wearing a mask practically everywhere I go these days, but it definitely IS the look of the year!!! Similar to going to the grocery store or my version of paradise aka Home Goods, wearing a mask is required on a college campus. At my school, there are signs literally EVERYWHERE telling students and faculty to wear a mask upon entering buildings and in areas where they cannot social distance. Research has shown that wearing a mask helps to contain the spread of Covid-19. Luckily, wearing a mask can be fashionable, too! Brands such as Lilly Pulitzer, Vera Bradley, Target, Kendra Scott, and several Etsy shops each have such adorable masks that one can wear to spice up their back to school wardrobe on and off a college campus. While we have to wear a mask, why not make it fashionable, even on a college campus?!

Social Distancing Protocols

The fact that a car can only run as long as it has a gas pedal and a steering wheel is similar to the fact that containing the spread of Covid-19 entails maintaining a distance of 6 feet apart while wearing a mask. Likewise, on a college campus, it is required that all student take precautions in following social distancing protocols. Most colleges have markers in order to ensure that students remain six feet apart from one another. My college, like many others, want to make sure that their on-campus residents follow social distancing protocols both on and off campus. My college has required that all students limit their off-campus travel, especially outside of my college town of Raleigh, North Carolina. If a student leaves the college town, then they must register with a specific site and list the things that they have done while there, in order to determine whether or not they need to self-isolate when they get back. That way, we all may be safe while on campus.

Contact Tracing

While the car may need a steering wheel and gas pedal to start, it also needs gas in order to start. The same goes for contact tracing on a college campus along with wearing a mask and keeping social distance, in order for a college to run smoothly during a pandemic. My college like many others is requiring all students, faculty, staff, and visitors to download the Campus Clear app. On the Campus Clear app, everyone who comes to campus essentially is screened for Covid-19 symptoms daily. Using Campus Clear requires its users to say whether or not they have coronavirus symptoms or has come into contact with someone who has Covid-19 and notes whether or not they are good to go. If a student is experiencing coronavirus symptoms, then they will receive instructions in the app on how to proceed. At the same time, if someone has tested positive for Covid-19, then those who may have interacted with them will be notified to self-isolate and asked to get a test as well. My school also has a building designated for students who have to self-isolate. Knowing that my school and many others are taking contact tracing seriously is extremely vital in keeping everything on a college campus up and running.

Classroom Layout

In order to promote social distancing, all classrooms have been laid out in a way that also promotes social distancing. While on campus, I have visited an academic building where everything has been drastically changed, in order to promote social distancing. For example, common areas are closed and tables that once had four chairs at them may only have one or two. As for in the classroom, desks and chairs are also laid out much differently in order to allow for students to maintain their social distance. At my school, desks and chairs have been rearranged in order to promote this. I found the social distancing classroom setting at my school to be rather friendly, while I know that some other schools’ classroom settings may not be the same. Whereas, my friends at larger universities were telling me that they have seen every other seat be blocked off or wrapped in bubble wrap. However schools choose to layout their classes to ensure that students keep their social distance, it must be done in order to keep others safe.

Virtual EVERYTHING

Since containing the spread of the coronavirus involves A LOT of social distancing, many college-related events have transformed to a virtual format. Classes, socials, club fairs, block parties, meetings, career fairs, and even sorority recruitment have all likely switched to meeting on Zoom or Google Hangouts. I have had training sessions, meetings for clubs/organizations as well as my thesis, and classes through a virtual format. Since large gatherings are not recommended at the moment, it is best not to have them. Most colleges are also strictly following the CDC’s, their state’s, and their local area’s guidelines as they pertain to keeping us safe. For right now, that means that most college events will be held virtually.

Outdoor Events Over Indoor Events

If an event can be done safely while social distancing, then it will 9 times out of 10 be done outdoors. In past years, many events that I have attended on my college campus have been either held virtually or outdoors if in-person. If a college chooses to have an in-person event outdoors, then it will most likely require all of their students to wear a face mask and maintain social distance at ALL TIMES. For instance, I attended an event on-campus earlier this week that was held outdoors where all of us were required to both wear a mask and stand 6 feet apart. At that event, each of us were split up into smaller groups to meet up with others. We also received goodie bags which were distributed to us 6 feet away from someone else’s goodie bag. Although this event looked a whole lot different than events in the past, it still felt SOOO good to see others in-person that I hadn’t have seen in a LONGGG time. Definitely take advantage of outdoors in-person events if you can, just wear your mask!

Online Campus

With the coronavirus still impacting practically every aspect of our lives, it unfortunately means that many students will not be able to be on campus in-person. Students will be attending classes and apart of campus from EVERYWHERE. With that all being said, it is important to know that virtual platforms such as Zoom, Instagram, Tik Tok, Facebook, email, and forms of messaging will be a vital part of the college campus scene. These virtual platforms will allow us college students to come together in ways like never before. The sense of community that us college students have felt on our campuses will transform to the digital world – I have seen it happen on my own campus and will continue to throughout the year. Knowing that the digital world is thriving on my campus, I rightfully assume that it is on many other college campuses as well.

Varying Social Distancing Definitions

With college students coming together after being apart from one another for about 5 months, there is most definitely differences in how they view the importance of social distancing. While me and most of my friends take social distancing very seriously, there are also many college students who do not. There will be parties and classmates of yours that will not wear a mask or practice social distancing when off campus. There will also probably be times that all of us college students do not feel comfortable when asked to partake in an activity. Even though our definitions of social distancing may be different, it is most important to remember to do YOUR PART in maintaining your social distance. Most importantly, you MUST do whatever makes YOU feel the MOST comfortable during these trying times. DO NOT do anything that you do not want to do or feel comfortable doing. Trust me, it will pay off in the long run!

Social Distanced Hangouts

With social distancing measures still in place pretty much everywhere, that means that many of us college students have to get creative with our hangouts and gatherings. College campuses have to regulate social distancing measures. That being said, picnics, walks, and outdoor activities will become the latest and greatest way for college students to hangout on campus. A friend of mine who attends a much larger university than mine also said that some of the restaurants at her school have been closed, in order to maintain social distance. Knowing that many colleges are taking social distancing very seriously, us college students will have to get real creative with our hangouts. If you need any ideas, please feel free to check out my post 11 Social Distancing-Approved Gatherings for inspiration!

Staggered Move-In’s

To promote social distancing and safety on college campuses, many of them are opting to stagger college move-in’s. At my school, we usually have one big day for Freshmen move-in. On the contrary, this year, that move-in has been spread out to three different days. As previously mentioned, each student is allowed only two moving helpers who all are required to wear masks when moving in. The same goes for my on-campus apartment. That way, everyone can strive to stay safe!

Zoom Fatigue

Now the struggles of college life during a pandemic: getting SICK OF ZOOM!!! I don’t know about you, but I get real tired of sitting at my desk ALLL day long on Zoom calls (I wish I was feeling 22 LOL!!!). Like myself, many college students get real tired of staring at a screen on Zoom all day everyday. It is definitely a STRUGGLE and y’all THE STRUGGLE IS REAL!!! Though some days feel much longer and more like a hassle than others, it is important to remember that you are not alone and that many others feel the same exact way.

Greater Emphasis on Social Media

With many colleges having a major online campus presence, many colleges will be placing a greater emphasis on their social media. I am extremely involved in a few on-campus organizations. Many of them have emphasized that social media will be a key way in reaching students on campus in ways that they have not like ever before. As online events take precedence over in-person one’s, the usage of social media will not only help promote those events, but also keep students engaged and have a sense of belonging on their campus even though it may look a bit different at the moment.

College life most definitely looks different right now due to the coronavirus pandemic. Even though college life has witnessed its several changes since March 2020, it does not mean that the authenticity of the college experience is completely taken away from us college students. It just means that us college students have to find new ways to socialize and engage with one another while remaining safe. During this time, each of us has a special story and experience to share, whether or not we are a college student or even living on campus as a college student, and we will remember these trying times and look back on them many years later. I hope to look on these times with a bittersweet smile on my face and I hope y’all will be able to too.

XOXO – Katie <3

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My Lilly Pulitzer Inspired College Apartment

Hey y’all! I am SO excited for today’s post, which is an Apartment Reveal of my on-campus college apartment!!! This is my second year living in this gorgeous apartment that I LOVE to call my home, but I definitely did some decorating here and there since moving in last week. Decorating is one of my favorite hobbies and if I could do it ALL DAY EVERYDAY, then I would. I get such an adrenaline from shopping for decor, especially on a budget. Keeping this in mind, the majority of things in my apartment are from Marshall’s/Home Goods/TJ Maxx, The Dollar Tree, Walmart, The Christmas Tree Shops, Amazon, Hobby Lobby, small businesses such as The Redheaded Camel, The Local Squirrel, and Pamlico Paper Company, gifted to me, things that I already had, secondhand finds, and DIY. My apartment was furnished for the most part, which is an extreme blessing! Hopefully, I can provide you with some decoration inspiration for your own place. Enjoy!!!

XOXO – Katie <3

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Back To School Lookbook: Mask Edition

While this upcoming school year will look quite different than past years, it does not mean that we do not have to embrace it. Personally, I have seen masks as our latest and greatest accessory of 2020. Like a handbag, there are several ways that we can style our masks to make them fun, unique, and specifically our own. Today, I have asked several of my girlfriends to share a photo of themselves styling their favorite back to school outfit with a little twist: wearing a mask.

Although the idea of wearing a mask to class and out and about may feel a bit daunting, it can be a SUPER FUN accessory to wear. More importantly, wearing a mask not only protects you, but it also protects our family, friends, neighbors, and our entire community. Wearing a mask helps to keep ourselves and everyone around us safe during this unique time. That being said, be uniquely YOU during this unique time, and remember that this too shall pass.

XOXO – Katie <3

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15 Items I LOVE Having in my College Dorm/Apartment

With college move-in coming upon us quicker than ever, it definitely is exciting to make your lists and check them twice on what you need for your dorm/apartment. It definitely is daunting to be sure you have absolutely EVERYTHING that you need. Luckily, going away to college is not like packing your bags for a trip to Italy, as most likely there will be a Target nearby your college. As a college Senior, I have been through all of the ups and downs of packing and deciding what to bring to your new dorm/apartment. Throughout my time as a college student, I have figured out what products I LOVE having in my dorm/apartment, which I have listed 15 of them here!

1 – Bath & Body Works Wallflower

No one that I know likes a room that smells weird! Unfortunately, college dorms and even apartments can most definitely have strange odors from time to time. Luckily, Bath & Body Works’ Wallflowers are great to add a fresh scented aura to any small space. Upon moving into my Freshmen dorm, I purchased one of their plug-in Wallflowers, which can easily be refilled once every 4-8 weeks with a new scent. If you’re like me and you LOVE Bath & Body Works, then you know that they carry several super amazing scents from lotions to perfumes to soaps which of course are available for their Wallflower plug-in refills. Bath & Body Works’ Wallflowers have definitely been my favorite over the years, and I will definitely still be using them after college too!

2 – Throw Blanket

Nothing says I need to wind down better than cozying up with a throw blanket after a long day of classes. Over the years, I have LOVED having a throw blanket in my dorm/apartment. Not only does it make me feel really homey in my home away from home, but it also keeps me warm when the dorms/apartments are ridiculously cold (which they can be!).

3 – Cards Against Humanity

Cards Against Humanity has definitely been a classic card game amongst many adults of all ages, but especially college students. The majority of college-aged students that I know are big fans of Cards Against Humanity, which makes it an excellent social gathering. In fact, many college students host parties in their dorms/apartments just to play this awesome card game. That being said, it is definitely worth looking into purchasing a pack before you make the move to college.

4 – Fan

College dorms and even apartments are extremely weird with their heating and air systems at times. One day you may be living in a sauna and the next you may be living in what feels like an igloo. Keeping this fact in mind, I would definitely purchase a fan no matter the size before you go off to college, as you will have days where you need it. I sometimes even carry around mini battery-powered fans that I found for under $2 at Walmart during the Summer.

5 – Mugs

I feel that a persons’ mug collection tells a bunch about themselves and who they are. Mugs are such a fun way to have something that is uniquely yours while telling a bit about yourself. I know that I LOVE to collect mugs from my travels, as I have a few in my collection from when I studied abroad in Europe. Additionally, I also have a ton of mugs that are bright and bubbly with flamingoes and Lilly Pulitzer prints. Having a mug (or five) in your college dorm/apartment is a great way to tell a bit about yourself while also having something right in your own space that you can use to whip up your favorite morning drink.

6 – Air Purifier

Like any bedroom back at home, college dorms/apartments can get VERY dusty. Before I went to college, my mom invested in an air purifier for my dorm, and I am OH SO GRATEFUL that she did. Air purifiers are a lifesaver, as they simply purify the air in your dorm/apartment throughout the day – something that not all the dusting and mopping in the world can fully do.

7 – Fun Magnets

Like mugs, I LOVE to collect magnets from my travels! Magnets are just such a fun way to decorate your fridge or mini fridge with all your adventures from the years. Besides how fun they are, magnets are also extremely easy to transport and super duper affordable. That being said, one or even 20 magnets definitely will not hurt the budget and leave you with some super fun digs for your new fridge no matter its size.

8 – Vacuum

A vacuum has definitely been my saving grace during my college years! Having a vacuum has allowed me to keep my place clean and neat. Personally, I feel that this item is worth the investment for anybody moving into a college dorm/apartment without explaining too much!

9 – Decorative Banner

Bar carts, over the bed, and desk side, OH MY! The possibilities for where to hang a banner are ENDLESS. Decorative banners have always been a favorite of mine, as they are easy to transport as well as either make or order online. I have found that banners make for a fun nice touch in any place, especially one that you’re making into your second home.

10 – Anti-Wrinkle Spray

My step-mom bought me anti-wrinkle spray when I moved into my Freshmen year dorm, and it has definitely been one of the best things that she introduced me to! Anti-wrinkle spray is a simple and practical way to get rid of wrinkles in your clothes without having a use an iron. All you have to do is spray it on the garment where the wrinkles are, straighten out the wrinkles on the garment, and poof they are gone!

11 – Plates & Utensils

This one mostly goes for those living in a dorm, since having plates and utensils in an apartment is pretty much a necessity. When in a dorm, the dining hall food most definitely gets old, even after the first week. In my dorm, I most definitely made a ton of microwaveable dishes that required a plate and my own utensils. They were most definitely a lifesaver for me in my own dorm!

12 – Throw Pillows

Like a decorative banner, throw pillows definitely add a personal and fun spice to your dorm/apartment. I have found having throw pillows to make my dorm room extra homey while away from home too!

13 – Bar Cart

Whether for snacks or drinks, bar carts are definitely the way to go! I LOVE having a bar cart in my apartment, as I can successfully store all of the snacks and drinks that I enjoy throughout the days. The best part about a bar cart is that you can easily add a banner or frame and really make it your own. The possibilities are limitless with a bar cart!

14 – Coffee/Tea

Whether you love coffee or tea, I would definitely get a few of your favorite morning drink staples before heading off to college. Although I am an avid tea lover, I do know many people who LOVE coffee and have really benefitted from having their own Keurig. At the same time, the dining hall may only offer so much when it comes to coffee and tea and Starbucks/Dunkin’ adds up real fast. Whatever floats your boat in the morning when it comes to drinks is what you need to stay afloat throughout the crazy college days!

15 – Wall Art

Like a throw pillow, mug, throw blanket, or magnet, wall art is a telltale way to make a space specifically yours. While you may be moving into a space temporarily that many have lived before you and will live after you, having your own wall art sets your place apart from everyone else’s. Most importantly, wall art makes your space uniquely yours.

Even though college dorm/apartment can be hectic from time to time, it is also really exciting! While my list varies on categories of items that I cannot live without while away at college, each of these items has truly made me feel much more at home in my brand-new and temporary space. Hopefully, the items that I shared will provide you with some inspiration on what to get for your own college dorm/apartment as you make a new space your own too!

XOXO – Katie <3

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How To Get Involved in College During the Coronavirus Pandemic

Whether it be clubs, sports, social events, or all of the above, college life definitely has something for everybody. While it may seem daunting to choose what you may want to get involved in at college, there are several ways to get plugged into college life and figure out where your niche on campus is. For most of us, you will not find your niche of involvement right away, but you will find it. While the coronavirus pandemic may make it a bit harder to figure out what that niche maybe, it is still possible – you just have to think outside of the box. Today, I will be sharing how you can determine what YOU want to do to make your years in college the BEST that they can be even during the Covid-19 pandemic!

Do Your Research!

Before getting onto campus, look up clubs and organizations that may peek your interest. Most colleges and universities have a list of their clubs/organizations on their club website. I would most definitely look up that list and make note of which one’s you’re most interested in. In addition to looking up clubs/organizations that interest you on your college’s website, you can also see if the one’s that interest you have a social media page on Facebook or Instagram. Through doing so, you can most likely see photos of the club/organization’s membership body as well as the events that they do. Then, you can determine whether or not that club/organization is a good potential fit for you to get involved with. Moreover, I would also follow any club/organization’s social media pages, in order to receive updates on events. Whether they may be a club in your intended major, a religious group, a sorority, or an intramural sports team, or all of the above, knowing what clubs interest you will better help you to get plugged into college life.

Attend Club/Organization Fairs

While this may look a little different this Fall in the wake of the coronavirus pandemic, I would highly suggest attending any virtual activities that your college offers that allow you to learn more about student life. Although most of us are not sure what club/organization fairs will look like at colleges and universities across the country this Fall, the biggest piece of advice that I can give you is to follow clubs/organizations that seem interesting to you like previously mentioned. One of the best ways to become a part of a club/organization’s membership body is to simply message the club’s social media page to ask to join their potential email list. Club/organization’s email lists are great ways to find out about events, meetings, and fundraisers. With many colleges still doing plenty of events online, email lists are a great way to get reminders sent directly to you about all things going on on your campus, whether virtual and or in-person, especially for things that peek your interest!

Be OPEN!

Even though many aspects of college life may seem daunting or not of your interest, I advise you to remain open to the many possibilities that college life may bring. If your roommate invites you to an event that may not interest you at first, then STILL GO! While many things may not peek our interests at first, it does not mean that way may end up enjoying them and want to get plugged in even more. Staying open to the several opportunities that college brings is extremely important and helps us to grow into the strong, extraordinary people that we are to become in college and beyond. The possibilities in college are ENDLESS, SO GO FOR IT!

Get Out Of YOUR Comfort Zone!

My mother always tells me that the only way you get out of your comfort zone is when you grow. Indeed my mother is right! Want to attend an event virtually or in-person but don’t have anyone to go with?! GO by yourself! Interested in checking out a cafe or restaurant but all of your friends have plans?! GO anyways! Want to try out for a sports team or join a religious group but do not know anyone involved in them already?! DO it anyways! The possibilities are literally out of this world when we do things that make us uncomfortable. Getting out of our comfort zone is a nerve-racking feeling, especially on a virtual platform. However, once we do get out of our comfort zones we allow ourselves to grow and become who we are meant to be in the long run. Personally, I have found the times that were uncomfortable for myself to be the most rewarding times in my life. Guess what?! I wouldn’t be the person I am today if I had not gotten out of my comfort zone and tried new things, alone or not, and I know you will only become your best self if you do just the same.

Stick with What YOU Like

To set the ball straight: you WILL NOT fit in with every club/organization’s student body or interests on your campus and that IS OKAY! The best part of attending college is the diverse student bodies and vast amount of clubs/organizations and activities to do. The best piece of advice I can give you is to stick with what YOU LIKE! If the Book club interests you more than the French club, then focus your time on attending Book club meetings and getting to know your fellow club members. It may take some time, but you WILL find your niche. Simply stick with activities from clubs/organizations and school-wide events that suit your interest, and it will come to you along with likeminded classmates who may become some of your best friends and potentially lifelong friends.

Pandemic or not, college life is daunting! However, if you put in the time and effort to get to know others and yourself, you will truly find your niche. While it may take time to find your place on campus, just know that it IS there waiting for you when you are ready!

XOXO – Katie <3

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How I Juggle College Life!

The socials, the hangouts, the study sessions, the meetings, the positions, the classes, and even jobs, OH MY! College is an exciting time, yet it can be one of the craziest most robust times of our lives as well. Most of us, like myself, are typically balancing a lot of various commitments and activities each day. Life at college is fun but it can also be extremely stressful if not properly managed. With the school year approaching us, I am going to be sharing how I juggle college life and the many things that I do on a regular basis.

Planners Are Your BEST FRIEND!

Establishing some sort of planning system is definitely going to help you to stay on top of everything that is going on. I have used both paperback planners, like those from Lilly Pulitzer and Erin Condren, and Digital planners through Google Calendar and Apple’s Calendar. Over time, I have come to prefer having everything on a digital front, as I have been one to forget to write everything down in my paperback calendar after the first week of classes *not gonna lie*! However, I do know that paperback planners are best for others and that is great. The most important thing is that you find the planning system that is BEST FOR YOU! Once you do, make it apart of your daily ritual!

To-Do Lists Will Become Your Best Friend As Well!

Along with having a planner, creating a to-do list is an excellent way to ensure that you conquer that many things that you have to do on the daily in your college life. I put things as simple as putting together a grocery list for the week to things for my blogging platform to things as complex as a Programming project or studying for a test. It helps me to break everything down into what I need to do each day or over the weekend. For instance, if I have a big test on a Wednesday, then I may write on my to-do list the week before and the Monday and Tuesday the week of to take some time and study for that test. The same idea of breaking to-do list entries down goes to a big project, paper, or even a homework assignment. Having everything together on one list helps me to conquer all of the things that I have to do, and I know it will help y’all too!

Use Syllabus Week as Planning Week!

Although syllabus week may feel like a major treat in the college world, it does not does any of us any justice to simply attend class and use the afternoon as a time to do anything but focus on our new courses. Typically, college syllabi come with a calendar of important dates to remember for your courses – test dates, project due dates, assignment due dates, etc. Once you have those dates in hand, I would highly suggest breaking out your planners and to-do lists and writing everything down. Come up with your plan for how you will complete each of the tasks that come with your classes the moment you get that syllabus.

At the same time, as someone who is involved in clubs and organizations as well as my school’s events, I always jot down the important dates that I need to remember for these commitments along with my academic one’s. Usually, clubs and organizations will either send out their meeting dates via email or have it posted somewhere online like a school website. Like a syllabus, I would write down all of the dates that you are committed to attending a meeting or event. If you have anything that you know you need to do before any of those commitments, then I would add them to your to-do list. Social commitments are just as important as the academic commitments in the college world, as both shape us into the people that we are and will become. Being able to complete tasks in both our academic and social worlds will help us to be well-rounded college graduates going into the real world in the years to come.

Things WILL Pop Up Last Second and That’s OKAY

While we can always plan to the best of our abilities, nothing will ever go perfectly as we anticipated. You may have a social outing or meeting last longer than you anticipated and that is OKAY. You may have an assignment simply creep up on you and that is OKAY. You may have something pop up with your friend or roommate that you need to tend to and that is OKAY. You may just need an evening for yourself and that is OKAY. Even though it may feel like a pain when things creep up on us that we do not expect, remember that it happens to the best of us. The most important thing is that you are trying your best to do all that you can do to juggle it all. Remember that all of us have our days and that is OKAY. We are ALL human.

Leave Time for YOU

While our college lives seem to leave us with time for everything but ourselves at times, it is always important to set some time aside each day for ourselves. Without that time, we will not be able to be our best selves. In fact, putting in time each day to simply wind down or do something that we enjoy that isn’t related to anything in our college lives helps us to be the best that we can be in our college lives. Most importantly, setting time for you helps you to be the best version of yourself in everything that you do!

College is a journey leading to the destination of acquiring a degree. While the classes, assignments, social activities, and everything in between can feel like a craze at times, remember to take time to enjoy where you are at. As a Senior in college, it feels like yesterday that I began my college journey. College will not last forever and nothing ever does, so enjoy the moments along the way. Enjoy the times that you have getting ice cream or dinner with friends. Enjoy the late nights that you and your roommate(s) spend studying and cramming for tests. Enjoy the many t-shirt sales at your fingertips and take advantage of every club or class fundraiser that you want to support *money allowing*. Enjoy the times in class that you spend with those in your major or even those not in your major and get to know your classmates in all of your classes. Enjoy the times in class and in meetings that may just overwhelm you. Most of all, make the best of your college experience and the little things in between it all – they are truly what makes college oh so special!

XOXO – Katie <3

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Why I Chose My Math Major

“You don’t seem like a math major” – a reaction that I ALWAYS get when I tell people that I am one. That is, besides the typical “gosh, math is hard – that was my worst subject!” Yes, math is a super hard subject, and I never envisioned myself choosing math as my major, especially if I were to look back at my high school years. However, choosing a major is definitely an extremely challenging decision to make and it wasn’t any different for myself. Every person, no matter their gender, has their own unique experience into deciding on their own college major and/or career trajectory. Since sharing other women’s stories on why they chose their majors, I figured that I would share my own story, as it is was a journey in itself to get to where I am today and where I plan to go career-wise moving forward.

My High School Years

Once upon a time, there was a fifteen year old Katie anxiously awaiting for her first class of the first day of her Sophomore year of high school to start. Her first class was none other than Fashion Marketing – the class that she was most excited for that year. In fact, that class was the one class that I would hope would help define my career path, as I have always LOVED fashion. That same week that classes started, my mother and I traveled to New York City during Mercedes Benz Fashion Week where we got to see the magic before our eyes of New York Fashion Week. I even got to walk the runway and fulfill my dream of doing so at Zappo’s popup runway booth right by Lincoln Center! In the classroom, as my Sophomore year progressed in Fashion Marketing, I became even more passionate about the fashion industry. I got to design my own garment out of a trash bag and tote bag out of Target shopping bags which were both super fun and also take a trip with other Fashion Marketing students all across my school district to Virginia Commonwealth University (VCU) in Richmond, Virginia to learn more about their fashion program and alumni’s career paths from their Fashion programs. We also watched a documentary on Vogue magazine’s iconic Editor-In-Chief Anna Wintour as well as The Devil Wears Prada, which is written by one of Wintour’s former assistant’s. My experiences in that course made me ecstatic to start my own career in fashion someday.

The summer before my Junior year of high school, I started to tour colleges. Since I was very optimistic about starting a career in fashion, my mom took me to many colleges with a fashion program. At one of the schools, we were lucky enough to get to meet with a professor in their Fashion Department. While meeting with the professor, she shared with us some of the jobs that alumni of their Fashion Merchandising program were getting. Although those jobs may have been a perfect fit for someone else, I knew in that moment that they were not for me. Leaving that meeting, I felt very disappointed as I had always dreamed of working in the fashion industry – it appeared so glamorous so fun. Though I knew this new reality, I did not want to give up my dreams of working in fashion, so I became in denial with what I had just faced.

Flash-forward to the Fall of my Junior year of high school, and I had decided to tour two schools in New York to check out their fashion programs. Going to school in New York City was then nothing but a dream that I wanted to come true for myself. I had grown up watching movies that took place in New York City, such as Eloise at the Plaza and of course Sex In the City. The city looked nothing short of glamorous and what I thought at the time was the most perfect place for me to attend college. When I toured both of the schools, I fell in love with one of them outside of the city, while I did not like to one at all inside of Manhattan. I was most definitely sad that I did not like the school that I toured in Manhattan, but it was also another tall-telling sign that fashion may not have been the degree for me.

As my Junior year of high school progressed, I began to question whether or not I would study fashion. Moreover, I started to think about studying Textiles Management or Cosmetic Chemistry, even though I had 0% interest in chemistry or any sciences for that matter. I also thought about Event Planning for sometime too. However, it was not until my mother mentioned Data Analytics and Statistics to me at the end of my Junior year that I finally realized I may have found a good career fit for me. As I finished out high school, I still was not so sure as to what I wanted to study but I thought I would give Math and/or Statistics a shot!

Early College Years

Let’s take it back a minute to the summer before my Freshmen year of college. That summer, I went on a graduation trip with my mother to Sofia, Bulgaria for a special education conference with her and her colleagues. One of her colleagues’ husbands came along with us to Bulgaria and he was a Computer Science major. He talked so highly of his job and career path using analytics through studying Computer Science. His excitement towards his college major made me want to pursue a degree in Computer Science. On the contrary, I had NEVER tried programming before my first class my Spring semester of my Freshmen year of college and let’s just say it did not come easy to me. That being said, I decided not to major in Computer Science and look towards something else.

When I was struggling in my first-ever Programming course, I was telling some of my friends and classmates about how I was trying to decide on a different major. Most of them told me that they all saw me as a Fashion major. At the same time, my mom told me to look into Meredith’s Fashion program, as I knew that they had one and it was good too. Following those around me’s suggestions, I looked into Meredith’s Fashion Merchandising Program and registered for a few fashion courses for my Sophomore year. At the same time, I decided to continue to pursue a minor in Math, since I knew I could get the credits to do so and it would look good to have a STEM minor, especially when standing out in the fashion industry. I finally felt as if I was on a career path that was my own, despite having a reeking gut feeling that fashion STILL wasn’t right for me.

The Fall semester of my Sophomore year, I was really excited to finally be in my first-ever fashion classes since high school. The first few days of classes went great until I started to realize that the program was geared towards gearing students up for a career path that just was not for me. In that moment, I FINALLY knew then and there that fashion was not for me. It was definitely a hard pill to swallow but an important one.

Fortunately, at the same time, I was continuing to take Math courses to progress in a Math degree. Let’s just say that I am OH SO THANKFUL that I continued to take them. While I definitely did not enjoy the Math classes that I took that semester and it made me really contemplate my major after that Fall semester, I am really glad that I stuck with it. As the Spring semester approached, I debated about declaring a Marketing or Event Planning degree and finishing out my minor in Math. I met with professors from the Business Department as well as my now-advisor in the Math and Computer Science Department to aide me in my *major* decision.

At the same time that I was stressing over my major, I did not feel as if I had the potential to be a Math major or even fit in with my department. Even though I did enjoy the girls in my department and we all really cared and still care very much for one another, I did not know or feel as if I fit in. I was really into fashion and planning events and going out and being social while most of them most definitely did not have all of those interests to my extent. My differing persona made me wonder if I would fit in in a different program with people that I felt as if I identified with more.

Besides feeling as if I did not have a place in my department, I also felt that I lacked potential in my degree. I’m going to put it out there: Math is HARD for a lot of people, including Math majors! My Math classes definitely were not easy, and I knew that it came more naturally to some of my classmates more than myself, which made me worry that I was not good enough or have any potential in my program. At first, I did not want to work hard in a subject that did not come as easy to me like it did to others, especially feeling as if I did not belong amongst my classmates. However, I decided to keep trying and to help my classmates out along the way. I made study guides and planned study sessions with some of them, and let’s just say that it not only helped me feel connected and if I had potential in my program but it also helped my classmates feel the same way. I also realized that I was not the only one who did not have their coursework come easy to me, which made me feel real reassured.

Declaring My Major

One of the really tell-tale moments for me when choosing my major is when one of my friends Jess told a staff member in the Career Center about how analytical my thinking is. It made me realize that I did have assets beyond creating study guides and hosting study sessions. Jess also helped me realize in that moment that I DO and DID have potential in my major and that I BELONGED in my department. Another moment for me is when I told my friend Ava that I was going to stick with my major in Math after debating for months and her response was an astounding “GOOD!”. After declaring my Math major, my friend Sydney and I cried happy tears as we celebrated. But, most importantly, Jess said to me “you belong here.” That is when I knew that I had found the right program and major for me.

Since declaring my major in Math, my friends in my department and I took some pictures to celebrate with one of our favorite hashtags: #MeredithMath. So many of my friends in my department showed up, which made me realize that I DID BELONG and that I DO have an excellent department full of incredible, strong, and empowering women. Their ongoing support has led me to take on the role as the Canaday Math and Computer Science Club’s President for my upcoming Senior year. My department has been growing both in diversity and in community. They say that empowered women empower one another, and indeed, they do!

XOXO – Katie <3

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