My Highlights of 2021!

This is my first full year as a blogger and it has brought about a whirlwind of emotions – both good and bad. Through it all though, I have had an extraordinary community here at The Pink Chickadee that has only flourished in this year. Earlier this week, I shared my Blogging Highlights of 2021 and a favorite outfit from each month (you can read more on that here); however, today’s blog post will solely focus on a peek into my personal life aka The Life of Katie!!

Winter 2021 (January-March):

In Winter 2021, I kicked off my new year in what I thought would have been the beginning of forever for me – I was dating somebody that I envisioned spending the rest of my life with. I came out as apart of the LGBTQ+ community here on my blogging platform, even though many of my friends knew about my sexuality before in fact years before I shared it publicly. I began to make many more connections thanks to my coming out here on this platform and am oh so grateful to have witnessed nothing but support from it all! Though I had high aspirations for my then-partner, I started to realize many red flags when dating them that for my own sanity I ended up breaking off the relationship in February. I became a victim of a mentally abusive and exhausting relationship, which I realized after breaking it off after a few months of dating them and thank goodness I did! While dating this ex of mine, I wished to be single more times than I did enjoying dating them. So, when the break up came about, I truly felt nothing but liberated.

Right after my break up, I truly began to change up my search for a job in my dream post-graduation life city: Washington, DC. My ex insisted that I live in North Carolina, in order to be close to them, where I barely had any luck finding a job in. On the flip side, I was starting to get some luck with some of my many connections in the Washington, DC area. My networking search continued to grow most specifically in the Washington, DC area. I was so excited that I ended up visiting the area where my Mom and Papa live for Spring Break. With a friend of mine, we stayed at my Papa’s house where I got to meet his dog Rosie who is now proudly mine too for the very first time. And, I went ALL around the city, even during the COVID-19 pandemic and pre-vaccination era, including: The National Mall, Nationals Park, the Jefferson Memorial, Clifton in the Virginia countryside, Old Town Alexandria in Virginia, and National Harbor in Maryland. Needless to say, it was an amazing time and I, then, decided to solely continue to search for a job in only the Washington, DC area via an announcement on the blog! The best part?! I was SINGLE and more than ready to start out on my own.

Spring 2021 (March-May):

Since announcing my move to the Washington, DC area, things started to only look up from there. My Papa has a basement that doubles as an apartment, which he graciously was excited to allow me to move into at a much cheaper than Washington, DC area rent cost. So, I had a place to live. I started to network even more which landed me an incredible job that I am still at today in the Northern Virginia area. So, I had a job. And, Papa had Rosie – a Shepherd Chihuahua mix from Puerto Rico who has since become my dog, too, and has made me a Dog Mom. So, I had a dog. All of this post graduation life excitement was in the city of my dreams. Needless to say, my life was looking pretty great when it came to my life after college!

During the remainder of my Spring 2021 semester, I had classes all online except for one – Public Speaking. Public Speaking was all about female empowerment and was indeed the best class to wrap up experiencing the in-person aspect of classes. I see that class as God’s way of giving me closure to my academic career for the time being. At first, I was super upset that I had an in-person class, but looking back, it was a great gift to have! At the same time, my college opened up the opportunity for many more in-person events. We had a Senior class parade, Alumnae Induction Ceremony, Graduation Ceremonies for the Class of 2020 (which I volunteered as a Marshall for), and a Freshmen class dinner which I also volunteered for. Most importantly, I got to help plan an in-person event called Class Day with my friends Maggie and Miranda (read more about that here!) and had an in-person graduation ceremony in the courtyard of my beautiful campus! I celebrated my achievements by being awarded 4 awards across my campus by my professors, classmates, and staff. Meanwhile, I got to celebrate my 22nd Birthday in-person, my friend Chandler’s 21st Birthday in-person, go to Ocean Isle, North Carolina with friends as a pre-graduation trip (read about here), take graduation photos with my friends Chandler, Addy, Miranda, Hannah, and Sophie (see those here – shoutout to Hannah and Quinn for the amazing photos!), celebrate my graduation with a Grad Party courtesy of my mother, and many dinners and lunches and brunches in between! It was a hectic yet super special time.

Since graduating, I immediately packed my bags into a huge U-Haul and Papa’s truck and made it with Rosie who is by the way NOT a lap dog on my lap to Washington, DC. Papa and I enjoyed some pizza that night and began to unpack the next day. The rest of my month of May consisted of me unpacking and getting settled into my brand-new home.

Summer 2021 (June-August):

My Summer 2021 was kind of a bummer. I didn’t have any trips except for a few weekend trips away and it was starting to hit me that I was not living with all of my friends just a few doors down. It sucked for a while, but I managed. Fortunately enough, my best friends Hannah and Alanna came for the weekend of July 4th and my best friends Caroline and Cassie came at the end of August. It was so much fun to be able to visit my new town with some of my best friends. At the same time, I also took several day trips in my new town – the Washington National Cathedral, the Smithsonian American Art Museum, Georgetown, the Smithsonian National Portrait Gallery, the National Mall, the Smithsonian American Museum of History, and Nationals Park. I was also able to explore much of my new state – Virginia – including: Burke Lake Park, Vienna, Old Town Alexandria, Mason Neck State Park, Occoquan, and Mosaic, Clifton. I also spent A LOT of time decorating my new apartment with pieces that I have had for years and some newer pieces (see my bedroom, pantry, office, patio, and kitchen respectively). I have explored my own home decor style and learned that I am most definitely a bright Palm Beach Grand Millennial who happens to not live in Palm Beach – haha!

Summer 2021 also marked the start of my career, with my first-ever salaried job starting in the end of July. While an intimidating at first glance, working full time has been super empowering and rewarding at the same time. I have begun to get involved and network within my own company and continue to do so – something that everyone should do!

Fall 2021-Christmas 2021 (September-December):

As my work progressed, I began to honestly feel a bit depressed during the Fall months. I was loosing my college experience, as I watched those in my network go back for their highly-anticipated Fall 2021 semester, despite the fact that I had already graduated. I had and still have yet to get my bearings in my new hometown: I am still in the process of making new friends and establishing new connections. There is so much excitement, but there is also so much nerves and sadness too. I spent a lot of time alone this Fall 2021 season, simply processing it all and hoping to find a way to feel connected. I also work primarily remote and will continue to at my company moving forward. It hasn’t been easy, but I hope to feel connected with others in my hometown and in my workplace very soon.

Meanwhile, my life looked anything but drab on the outside! I traveled ALL over the place – Philadelphia, Pennsylvania; Skyline Drive at Shenandoah National Park, Virginia; Pennington, New Jersey; Haddonfield, New Jersey; Raleigh, North Carolina for a Meredith College Reunion and a wedding as well as the NC State Fair; Bethany Beach, Delaware; and Charlottesville, Virginia. I had experienced many blessings with many friends and family and a great holiday season, too! My good friend Shivani moved to the Washington, DC area too and it was great to be able to have someone to do some fun things in this area with as well – we went to Georgetown and Ballston and she even fit right into our family at Thanksgiving Dinner. My Dad also spent some time with me at my apartment in November, which was such a blessing, too! Despite some of the post-graduation hardships, I also feel like there were many many many blessings within the silver linings.

Highlights!

My last first day of school!
Celebrating my 22nd Birthday with Caroline, Claire, Hannah, Miranda, and Chandler
Announcing my Washington, DC move!
Graduation photos with Sophie – champagne and all!
My pre-graduation trip to Ocean Isle, North Carolina
Hosting my Housewarming Party and getting to see my good friend Sarah
My Graduation Party with Julia, Kaylee, Alanna, Hannah, Sophie, and Macy
Seeing where the Constitution was signed on Constitution Day in Independence Hall in Philadelphia with my Pumpkin Spice Latte
Uncle Ed’s Ice Cream with Chris, Andrew, Joe, and Tim in Pennington, New Jersey
One of my favorite photoshoots with my Big Sis Macy
My bizarre lighthouse experience at Fenwick Island Lighthouse in Delaware
Class Day was a success after planning it for 6 weeks and getting to have it in-person!!
Photoshoot and picnic fun with Hannah and Alanna in Dorothea Dix Park in Raleigh
My Fourth of July visitors – Alanna and Hannah
Visiting Nall’s Produce for all of my Fall Instagramming needs
Graduation photos with Miranda and Chandler
The Senior Parade at Meredith College
My first-ever visit to the brand-new Meredith Lake at Meredith College
Meredith College Reunion Weekend with Alanna, Kaylee, Julia, and Chandler
My solo trip to the Washington National Cathedral
Going to a wine tasting with Amanda in Haddon Heights, New Jersey
My first-ever Nationals game with my best friend Wyatt
When Cassie & Caroline came to town and made a pit stop at the White House!
Visiting my new favorite winery – Paradise Springs Winery in Clifton, Virginia
Graduating and becoming hotter by one degree – my parents luckily were able to watch me walk across that stage!
Picnic with my good friends Violet and Haley
Day trip to Skyline Drive at Shenandoah National Park, Virginia
Papa’s family reunion 2021 in Carlisle, Pennsylvania
Visiting my Lil Sis Lelia and my Grand Lil Madelyne at Meredith College
Visiting Thomas Jefferson’s Monticello in Charlottesville, Virginia with Papa
Going back to the NC State Fair with Alanna, Hannah, and Bryn
Meeting up with Shivani in Georgetown
Visiting Chris in Titusville, New Jersey
The Alumnae Induction Ceremony at Meredith College with Chandler – our first in-person event since COVID-19!
Dinner at Ballston with Shivani
Visiting my best friend Amanda (Christmas Village in Philadelphia)
Visiting the National Christmas Tree
Christmas 2021

If you’re oh so curious about what I was up to in 2020 (surprisingly, it was a pretty good year for me!) you can read more about that in My Highlights of 2020 blog post (linked here).

XOXO – Katie <3

My Blogging Highlights of 2021 + Favorite Outfit from Each Month! 

Oh what fun this past year of 2021 was! 2021 was my first full year as a blogger. I witnessed many changes in my life – graduation from college, a move to the nation’s capital, postgraduate employment in the corporate world while primarily working remotely, and becoming a Dog Mom to Rosie. Through it all, my platform here at The Pink Chickadee has kept me going strong. Today on the blog, I am going to be sharing some of my blogger highlights PLUS my favorite outfit from each month of the year.

My Blogging Highlights

  • Recoding my site *multiple* times
  • Becoming a member of RewardStyle!
  • Shooting content in 7 different states: Delaware, New Jersey, Pennsylvania, North Carolina, Washington DC, Virginia, and Maryland
  • Becoming a member of Influenster!
  • Collaborations with several different brands (16 to be exact!): Panera Bread, Ouges, Peet’s Coffee, Glitter & Daisies, Sangria Senorial, Sidral Mundet, Eos, Larace, Fanci, Flipz, Advil, Cassie’s Designs, Born to be Sassy Boutique, Mapiful, completelyBare, and Good Molecules
  • Collaborations with many fellow influencers, such as my good friends Holly of Glitter & Daisies, Lindsay of Sunshine and Stair Climbs, Hayleigh of The Up and Coming School Counselor, and Sly of Sly the Stylist sharing our favorite secondhand finds, Lilly Pulitzer finds, or Target finds!
  • Giveaways that includes Lilly Pulitzer gift cards, Target gift cards, and Starbucks gift cards
  • Shot content regularly with the help of my best friends Hannah and Wyatt along with my Papa
  • Conducted my first-ever Blogger Reader Survey!

My Favorite Outfit From Each Month!

January

February

March

April

May

June

July

August

September

October

November

December

Here’s to making MANY MANY MANY more memories in 2022 and beyond!

XOXO – Katie <3

Interview with Holly of Glitter & Daisies

Ever since I started my platform here at The Pink Chickadee, I have LOVED getting to interview several women and men, all of which I have known personally and mostly from my college. I am so excited to expand my interviews beyond my little friend and college bubble in this world. Today, I am interviewing the lovely and ultra-talented friend of mine – Holly! Holly runs a Disney small business known as Glitter & Daisies (linked here) you can also follow Holly @glitteranddaisiescastle on Instagram, where she designs the most beautiful Disney ears and gives some of the proceeds to the American Cancer Society (only the BEST way to spread some Disney cheer!!!). You can also use my code PINK10 to get 10% off your purchase on anything on her site. Now, let’s learn more about the amazing Holly!!

Tell me a bit about yourself!

I’m Holly, I love all things pink, glitter and floral. My favorite animal is a corgi. I am a huge romantic comedy movie fan. My favorite TV show is Parks and Recreation. I’m 27 and still figuring out this adult thing. I love to craft and spend time with friends and family. 🙂

When did your Disney obsession begin?

My Disney obsession started as long as I have existed honestly. A lot of my childhood was spent watching Disney animated movies and watching Disney channel with my dad. I remember  when Lizzie McGuire was airing live on TV. My dad and I used to watch the show together sitting in his favorite recliner chair. My bedroom was Little Mermaid themed growing up, I had the bedding set and a rug, I felt like the coolest kid. I remember getting so excited for all the new DCOM’s (Disney Channel Original Movies) to air. As I got older I still felt connected to Disney and  was fortunate in high school to star in my high school’s musicals of Cinderella and Beauty and the Beast. When I went to graduate school to pursue my master’s degree I made a really good friend who also loved Disney! During the pandemic I was able to have more time at home in the evenings since I was no longer commuting to the office and was able to really dive deep into Disney movies I hadn’t seen in a really long time.

Who is your favorite Disney Princess and/or Disney character?

My very first favorite Disney princess was Ariel. The Little Mermaid was my absolute favorite when I was growing up. When I was in high school the movie Tangled came out and I instantly fell in love with Rapunzel’s personality and her independence. So Ariel and Rapunzel both have a special place in my heart!

Tell me a bit about Glitter & Daisies?!

Glitter and Daisies started out as a fashion instagram during my first semester of graduate school. I was in a new city and didn’t know anyone, so I wanted to explore my passion for fashion and started an instagram page! I still utilize my fashion instagram but have shifted my focus more now on the Glitter and Daisies brand within the Disney community. 

So, what made you want to start Glitter & Daisies?

I have honestly always wanted to start a business. During the pandemic I needed a creative outlet and I started making Disney ears. At first it was just a fun little project but then I fell in love with the idea of sharing my ear designs with others and seeing them worn in the parks. So I pulled together my resources and started my business!

Tell me a bit about some of the designs that you’ve made. What’s been your favorite of the bunch to design?

I feel like every time I make a new design it becomes my favorite! At this point in time my favorite is a pair I called Rapunzel’s Glow. They really look like pure joy and sunshine to me. I have a pair that was my original favorite and part of my original line up from when I launched my shop celebrating the 50th anniversary of Walt Disney World. That pair is so special to me. I included glittery depictions of Cinderella Castle, little pom poms on the trim and this beautiful blue and purple iridescent fabric. 

I know you have donated some of your profits to the American Cancer Society. I think that is inspiring! What inspired you to do just that?

I have always really appreciated when brands or companies take the time to honor important causes. I know as a consumer that’s something that I really value when I can shop for things I love and support a good cause in the process. I already had this pink ear design called Aurora’s Crown and October is such an important month because it’s Breast Cancer Awareness Month. The pieces really just fell into place and the idea clicked! I researched organizations that had a positive reputation in where their funds go to and how they help breast cancer patients and survivors. Obviously I am not a huge corporation, but if I can use my shop to help support such an important cause then I want to do what I can.

What were some of the first steps you took to make your dreams of opening Glitter & Daisies a reality?

I had to do a lot of research into how to start a business. My background is in mental health counseling, so I have zero experience when it comes to actually making a business come to life. I am fortunate that a really good friend of mine from college is a CPA so one night I had a long talk with her about steps I needed to take to make it official and obtaining my business license. If anyone out there is considering starting a business, google is your friend. There are so many amazing step by step guides to help you with filing for your business license and knowing how to make a website.

Running a small business isn’t easy for anybody. I know you made a super fun Instagram Reels sharing the many roles that you take on for Glitter & Daisies. Can you share a bit about what some of those are for those that may not know what a small business may entail?

When you run a small business, especially at first, you may not really have a staff. In my case, I was starting this business from my apartment. I do almost everything in the business myself. I make the ears, buy the inventory, ship the orders, manage the website, do the social media marketing. It can be a lot, but I have been able to learn so much and really appreciate the work it takes to have a business. My boyfriend helped me make my website and he designed my logo because he has graphic design skills. I am definitely happy to have support!

We all know that commitment is key when running a small business or any side hustle. How do you stay motivated to keep hustlin’ even when you feel as if you need a break?

One thing I have learned is it’s okay to take a break. Some days you are just not in the right headspace to go film videos or take photos and that is okay! Burnout is a very real thing and it can strike at any time. On days where I maybe feel less motivated, I try not to overload myself. On a day to day basis I write down what I call my daily intentions. It’s a to do list, but I call them intentions because these are things I want to view as intentional and meaningful to me. I try to have at least 5 things on a daily list. Some days that includes working on orders, other days it is filming videos for Instagram and Tiktok. On days where it is more of a struggle I get done what I am able to, but I give myself the grace to allow some things to remain on the list for tomorrow. I also remind myself that I started this business as a fun creative outlet. I love to look at pictures and videos I receive from customers because it reframes my focus and brings me so much joy.

Also, on the note of Instagram Reels and Tik Tok, you create some of the most fun content when it comes to those two things! What is some advice that you have for others who are struggling with creating Reels and Tik Tok’s?

Oh I love this question! At first I was really hesitant with reels and Tiktok. But my best advice is to lean into it and allow yourself to have fun! Some of my favorite videos and most popular ones on my pages are ones where I let loose and let my personality show. I am generally a really happy person who loves to make people laugh and if I can bring that to a video, even better! Start small, don’t feel like you have to go out and film 15 videos tomorrow. Try just working on a small video and brainstorming ideas that sound fun to you. You absolutely do not have to do dancing videos! I know some people are super intimidated by them, and even I am at times. I use the app InShot to edit all my videos, it is such a helpful tool and it’s free!

What has been your favorite Instagram Reels/Tik Tok that you have made?

I really love the styling my ears series I have done. It combines two of my passions, Disney and fashion! It also reminds me of where I started since my brand began by starting a fashion blog. I also really loved the one I did based off the Full House theme song where you show the different roles in your business.

What is one thing that you didn’t expect to learn from running Glitter & Daisies?

Hmmm, honestly learning TikTok! I didn’t utilize Tiktok at all until I started this business. So I have had to learn how to use it, market within it and growing an audience there, which is pretty different from Instagram. Social media marketing in general can be tough to navigate but is such a necessary means of growing your brand, so I have been learning and growing my way of reaching people.

Many people dream of starting their own side hustle, including a small business. Today’s Instagram Algorithm makes it rough for new small businesses to garner visibility. What has helped you to stay afloat and still get some great visibility for Glitter & Daisies?

Oh the algorithm…what a time I have had fooling with it. Instagram is tough and it can be really defeating at times if I’m being honest. That’s just the nature of the algorithm. Making more video content has been helpful as well as focusing on building connections with other Disney creators. I have made some really sweet friends through Instagram and when you make those connections, those people will show up for you. I have recently been focusing more on audience engagement through stories as well because that’s a space where people can get to know you on a more personal level. Sharing small bits of your daily life (and only as much as you feel comfortable sharing) can help them to see the person behind the brand and the more raw moments of your life. Posting questions boxes, polls, and asking them questions helps them to feel important too!

I know you’ve started supporting others within your Disney niche on social media via engagement, whether it be influencers or other fellow small business owners. How has that benefitted you and your business?

It’s important to build connections. It’s similar to the traditional business world where networking is important, the same goes for social media. When you start engaging with other creators, you have the opportunity to get to know a real person. I have been able to meet some truly fabulous people through my business in the last few months. When you build connections, you’re building trust as well. And when people trust you, they will show up for you by engaging on your content and can even work with you on partnerships. It’s also been really nice to get to know other Disney creators because I unfortunately do not live close to the parks. So I am not one of those people who can go every week. I’ve had people that I have gotten to know who have offered to take product photos for me in the parks when I am not able to be there. I am always so appreciative when people offer to do something like that because they don’t have to. They don’t owe that to me. But they want to help me out and I am always blown away by the support from people I haven’t gotten to meet in person yet. 

There are many people who want to start their own small business solely for the profits. But, we both know there’s so much more to it than money. It involves passion and I can see it in your creations and social media content! What would you say to someone who is looking to start their own small business?

I would definitely say don’t start one just for profit. It takes a lot of work to make a business profitable. Sometimes it can take months to years before you reach a place where you are really profitable. One thing I have had to learn is patience. I have all these goals and big dreams, but it doesn’t happen overnight. You really have to work for it and that takes time. And I would also say that it is easy to get discouraged, but if it’s something you really want, hang in there! And have fun with it too, you want to do this for a reason and you need to enjoy it!

What are some of your goals for Glitter & Daisies in 2022 (that you don’t mind sharing!)?

Oh this is a fun one! In 2022 I would love to expand my Princess Series collection. I am hoping to potentially add a few new products (besides ears) to the shop as well. And a goal I have is to reach different locations across the country. One of my goal states is California! This may not happen in 2022, but I would also love to someday do a pop up of my shop. That may take more planning than I can do in 2022, but definitely a future goal of mine!

So, I know you are going to Disney World in 2022! What are you most looking forward to doing?

Oh my gosh, everything!! I am going to celebrate my 7 year dating anniversary with my boyfriend. We have never been to Disney together so I am really excited to experience this with him. We were able to snag a reservation at Cinderella’s Royal Table and I am soooo excited to get to eat there! As far as attraction wise, I am super stoked to get to ride Slinky Dog Dash, it’ll be our first time getting to ride it! And honestly just excited to be at Disney. It’s such a magical place and it’ll be nice to just be there.

I also know you participate in virtual runDisney events. Tell us a little bit about that!

So back in my high school days I used to run cross country. I kept up running throughout college just not on a team. Once I got into full on adulthood I had a harder time with maintaining work, social life and having down time after work to relax. I wanted to get back into an exercise routine once I was working from home because I really had the time to make it a priority. Then I learned runDisney was doing virtual races and I jumped at the opportunity! What’s great about it is you have the ability to do this on your own time, it’s not something where you have to do it on a certain day. So you could space it out over multiple days or do it all at once depending on your preference. And it’s nice to still feel a part of the magic even if you aren’t able to attend the races in person. Plus you get a super cool medal and I just can’t pass that up! 🙂

Lastly, what are some ways that others can support small businesses like yours and others that they love?

Engagement on social media is huge to help businesses be seen, especially when bigger brands tend to purchase ads and show up more often in people’s feeds. Sharing posts and videos is a free way to help businesses reach more people and show your appreciation for the content they spend time making. Tagging friends in comments if there is a product you think they would love is also a great way to help out! And I can’t tell you how much joy it  brings to see someone appreciate the work you put into not only your product but your content. Sometimes it can take hours to get the right photos or videos and edit them. Every little like or comment means the world! 🙂

Holly is extremely wise beyond her years. As she shows off her Disney ears, I cannot wait to see where Glitter & Daisies takes her in the many many years to come!

XOXO – Katie <3

48 Hours of Philadelphia Christmas Cheer

Merry in Philly! This past weekend, I visited my best friend Amanda who lives in Haddonfield, New Jersey (right outside of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania) for a Christmas weekend of fun away! Personally, I have always LOVED the Pennsylvania/New Jersey area. I grew up about an hour North of Philadelphia in Pennington, New Jersey (read on to see my weekend in Pennington last weekend here!) and this area of the mid-Atlantic most definitely feels like home, despite me not actually living there. While in Philadelphia, Amanda and I did ALL the Christmas things that the city has to offer!

Haddonfield, New Jersey

Haddonfield, New Jersey is one of the most precious little towns about 15-20 minutes outside of Philadelphia. It’s an older town that has maintained its charm throughout its modernization that’s centuries long and ever-evolving. There are some stunning churches that resemble those of an old English cathedral courtesy of my study abroad experiences in London, England. At the same time, Haddonfield offers a plethora of small businesses, whether it be restaurants, cafes, shops, and ice cream/gelato parlors. The town gets ALL decked out for Christmas in the most extra and beautiful way possible. It’s a great town to live in and let alone visit!

I have visited Amanda many times in the past, so I have been able to see and admire the downtown streets of Haddonfield many many times before. However, I have had less of an opportunity to do just that at Christmas. Amanda and I walked the streets of Haddonfield during the day, getting coffee at Saxby’s – a New Jersey/Pennsylvania chain that I actually found once in Georgetown, Washington DC last month, and checking out some of the adorable small businesses. One of my favorites that is literally Instagrammable and just drop dead gorgeous on every shelve you turn when it comes to small businesses is Home On Haddon – a home goods boutique that I recently discovered when writing this blog post – HAHA – has an online shop, too. Another small business that I LOVE is a consignment store with an online section – carrying several designers and name brands known as Raks Thrift Avenue. There’s a cute little restaurant there that serves diner-like food called The Bistro on Haddonfield, which Amanda and I enjoyed a Sunday brunch at before I headed back to the nation’s capital. After brunch at The Bistro on Haddonfield, I discovered a newly opened town gem – Downtown Cookies. Downtown Cookies had an adorable balloon arch for ALL of your photo and social media posting needs. Not to mention, their cookies are literally to die for good! Haddonfield most definitely has some sweet gems within its main downtown area that I know anyone can enjoy!

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

On Saturday, Amanda and I spent the afternoon and early evening in Philadelphia. From Haddonfield, downtown Philadelphia is just a few direct stops away on the PATCO line – easy as that! Once we got into the downtown, we went to the Christmas Village that the city has to offer. The Christmas Village of Philadelphia is located in the downtown area right in front of and around City Hall and LOVE Park. Christmas Village offered ice skating, a Ferris wheel, a mini train for children, a carousel, and had several shops and food places along the rows and rows of the Christmas Market. We both didn’t really shop or eat at the Christmas market since it was expensive. Rather, we went to two of the many super fun and Instagrammable pop up bars nearby! I have been fortunate enough to see ALL of the sites in the City of Brotherly Love over the years that enjoying a few drinks can definitely be the focus for me when visiting this magical city.

As for the Christmas bars, I forget the name of the first one we went to but it was right beside City Hall and LOVE Park and in the center of ALLL the action. It had adorable little Christmas houses to sit in and enjoy drinks outdoors with space heaters all around. Meanwhile, the second bar that we went to was Tinsel – a pop up bar that only comes during both Halloween and Christmas time. Tinsel is located on 12th Street South and is next to an adorable Black-owned Popcorn shop with online ordering – Go Popcorn – where we got to meet the sons/cousins of the owners. Tinsel is in a rather small venue, but they have a line to get in – it moves FAST do not worry – in order to keep down on crowds and be sure that all guests pay their $5 cash cover and are of age and is decked out into the 9’s. Tinsel is most definitely a grab a drink, take a picture, and go type of place but it’s still super fun for that allotted time. Amanda and I split a hot chocolate that came with a souvenir Santa cup/mug to take home. After about 20-30 minutes of admiring the gorgeously decked halls of Tinsel, we headed back for Haddonfield.

Philadelphia is one of my all-time favorite cities. I love it and am so glad I finally got to experience it as a 21+ woman, as I was a lot younger the last times that I went! It’s always a blessing to see friends like Amanda, whether near or far.

XOXO – Katie <3

Is Ipsy Worth It?

When I was in high school, I used to get SO excited when I would see my favorite influencers at the time unboxing their monthly Ipsy bag subscriptions on most notably YouTube. Just a few years later as I got my own first-ever big girl job, I decided to *finally* take the plunge and sign up for a monthly Ipsy bag subscription in June 2021! Personally, I think that Ipsy is worth it for myself, but today, I will be sharing a little bit about Ipsy and its subscriptions and as to whether or not it may be the right fit for you, too.

What is Ipsy?

Ipsy promotes the idea that beauty is filled with self expression and inclusivity of people of all kinds. Ipsy strives to provide its community with “an endless exchange of beauty ideas” and inspiration first and foremost, celebrate the individual wearing their products, and empower others, too. Ipsy offers its consumers with a Glam Bag every month (~$13/month) that is filled with a personalized selection of sample sized products based on a survey that they take upon registration. Each of the items with the exception of one that I pick out are a big fat mystery until I get a monthly email showing me a preview of my Glam Bag when it ships. Along with the Glam Bag, Ipsy also has a Glam Bag Plus and Glam Bag X option at an additional cost per month.

Along with the Glam Bag, Ipsy also allows its community to become subscribers of its Refreshments. I personally am, and each month I get some hand cream (which I use as Christmas gifts for friends and family) and makeup remover wipes that I LOVE even with my sensitive skin. Actually, I used to be an avid Neutrogena Makeup Remover Wipes user until Refreshments came along sending me a free complimentary package of their makeup remover wipes upon signing up, which then I knew I needed to sign up and not order from anywhere else!

Ipsy also has a shop, sells exclusive Glam Bags designed by celebrities including the iconic Halsey, and a gift section. In addition to each monthly Glam Bag, subscribers can select add-on’s, too.

Why I LOVE Ipsy!

Ipsy allows me to try different products that I would not have used otherwise. I have been given some duo eyeshadow palettes that I LOVE and make my makeup routine oh so easy. Similarly speaking, I have also loved the blushes and highlighters that I have received as well as my Ciate Watermelon scented face primer. Personally, I have not been one to shop for makeup on my own beyond what I use on a regular basis. Ipsy through and through has allowed me to try out some new and exciting products and branch out – many of these products I have LOVED!

While Ipsy is a monthly investment, I think it is worthwhile if you are into makeup, wear makeup regularly, and are always wanting to give some new products a go. Ipsy is definitely worth it for me, but I cannot answer as to whether or not it is for you. Only you can answer that for yourself.

XOXO – Katie <3

48 Hours of a New Jersey Christmas

New Jersey is known as the “Garden State” and many people never get to truly see why. New Jersey is a magnificent state and it’s filled with a vast array of beauty. My Aunts, Uncles, cousins, Grandpa, and some of my best friends currently live in New Jersey, giving me plenty of opportunities to go back and visit. In fact, I was actually born in New Jersey and lived there for 5 years of my life! Needless to say, I love love love New Jersey and some of the many things that it has to offer – history, beaches, beautiful countryside, pizza and bagels, and its close proximity to New York City and Philadelphia. This past weekend, I visited one of my childhood best friends Chris in our hometown where I used to live of Pennington, New Jersey in the Central part of the state.

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Day 1 – Pennington Holiday Walk

Coffee with a View Part 1 – in front of Twirl Toy Shop!

Every year, the town of Pennington puts on a Holiday Walk. At the Holiday Walk, they light the town tree, the streets are closed, and many of its local businesses – which fill the streets rather than well-known chains – distribute hot chocolate to attendees for free. All of the local businesses also stay open later so that Holiday Walk goers can shop and support locally. Some of my favorite shops are The Front Porch, Twirl Toy Shop, and 2nd Time Around (a secondhand store that I sadly closing come January 1, 2022). The Front Porch happens to have an online store, too, so I can luckily shop my favorite finds from the DMV! Chris and I also went to Vito’s Pizza – our favorite New York or what I like to call New Jersey style pizza shop that has been around for YEARS – with his girlfriend Kim and our mutual good friend Andrew.

Throughout the night, we all walked the carless main streets of Pennington. Snowflakes that light up twinkle throughout the streets as they line the poles along the Main Street. Pennington is filled with so much historic charm that has remained in tact throughout the years. Its churches that reminisce those of cathedrals straight from the streets of London with their hand-painted stained glass windows, the homes that have been around for centuries and still maintain their unique, historical charm, and its small businesses – some of which have been there for decades, including The Pennington Market and the Pennington Apothecary. Whether its daytime or nighttime, Pennington’s historic charm shines through, especially during the holiday season filled with holiday cheer at every turn you make.

Coffee with a View Part 2 – in front of Poppy Boutique!
Coffee with a View Part 3 – in front of a dazzling Snowflake!

Day 2 – Titusville

On my second day here in beautiful New Jersey, Chris showed me one of his favorite places to walk – Titusville, New Jersey. Titusville, New Jersey is conveniently located along the Delaware River across from Washington’s Crossing Historic Park in Pennsylvania which lays on the other side. There are many riverside views that we were able to take in, even in the Wintertime! The trail along the Delaware River takes you through to a mystical, Victorian style magical wonderland. There are homes, a Titusville church, a cemetery, and several waterfront views that line it. All of the houses were decked out in their best Christmas way to spread some holiday cheer. Needless to say, despite the cold and the less than picturesque than Fall, Spring, and Summer Winter trees, I loved Chris’s regular walk and am so glad I got to do it with him. I was immersed into learning about the historic Titusville, New Jersey from just a simple walk!

Chris and I had an amazing weekend together. Chris is extremely well-versed with his knowledge of Pennington and its surrounding areas, including Titusville. He LOVES New Jersey and is so proud to be a born and raised resident there that it makes anyone want to be proud of their own heritage and hometowns, too. We had such a beautiful weekend getting in friend time and some sightseeing, too. All in all, a true blessing!

XOXO – Katie <3

Why Adulting is HARD During the Holiday’s

The other day, I woke up to my glaring alarm clock at 6am. Pure exhaustion was at its finest. I had to catch a train later that morning, yet, I hadn’t packed for my weekend trip. So, I grabbed my coffee, started to chug it down to wake myself up, and I still didn’t feel awake. However, through it all, I got up and I started to hustle and hustle double as much as I was just a month ago. COVID-19 shot down the holiday festivities for the most part in 2020, and in 2021 my exhaustion is greater than ever before. With all of this, I know that I am NOT alone. The holidays are exhausting and that is OKAY!

Since starting my full-time job, I have felt exhausted more than ever before. Working full time is extremely tiring, and it is the grind that never stops. So many days, I wake up and think “oh I want to do *insert activity here* and I’ll get to it over Winter Break”, but then realize that working full time does not usually provide the luxury of a three week break. Some jobs don’t even give Christmas Eve or even Christmas Day off – I feel VERY fortunate that I have both off and am able to take a few days off for myself. It’s hard to realize that the working world does not have the same luxuries as the college world in terms of Winter Break and breaks, but it is something that each of us must face in our lives. We MUST keep going, despite all of the lack of breaks that we may get.

A few weeks ago, my friend Shivani and I were talking about how we do not need to overbook ourselves during the holiday season. However, I have *most definitely* overbooked myself already. I am traveling every weekend before Christmas, traveling even during the week, going on a few late afternoon/evening excursions, attending evening events and even hosting my own Christmas Party, and traveling for New Years, too – ALL while working full time. Let alone, we cannot forget that every human needs 3 meals a day give or take, some time for physical activity, time to work on their potential side hustle, and take care of their potential pets/children along with getting approximately 8 hours of sleep each night, in order to be healthy. Not to mention, the holidays brings on gift shopping, gift cooking and baking, decorating for the holidays, gift wrapping, card sending, and much more. The holidays are crazy, and it’s easy to overbook ourselves, especially when the world feels like it is never-ending.

When I was in college, a friend and I were in her car before a fashion show for one of our finals. For the course, the fashion show was a part of our final exam. I recall while riding with her to go pick out outfits for modeling within that fashion show she said “finals feel like a 3 week period that we think is never-ending until it is”. Indeed, the holidays are the SAME exact way for adults. However, the break part usually isn’t 3 weeks to a month. We keep going, despite the fatigue and we learn something if not many things from it. We learn how to maintain ourselves on our own and not depend on anyone else. We gain independence, strength, and the dedication to our work and outside of work commitments. Adulting is TOUGH, but it is the pathway to the life that can provide for ourselves, our pets, and someday our partners and maybe even children.

Adulting sucks sometimes, but it can also be super rewarding. The holidays make adulting that much more tougher. Having to keep going, despite the stress, chaos, and overbooking outside of the work world isn’t easy. But, at the same time, each and every single one of us has one life to live. Even throughout the extreme fatigue that arises during the holiday season with it all, living our lives to the fullest and enjoying every single moment is important. We all have one life to live and it is what we make it, especially during this holiday season of overbooking, overcommitment, and most importantly togetherness.

XOXO – Katie <3

Gift Guides: November 15-December 4 Round-Up!

It’s officially December, and I am feeling merry merry merry on this wonderful day! With Christmas shopping under way now more than ever before, I have found Christmas Gift Guides to be a super fun way to round up some fun gift ideas for those you love in your life or perhaps yourself. Over the past two weeks, my gift guides have been targeted at the Wine Lover, those who Work from Home, Stocking Stuffers for Her, the Coffee Lover, and the Enneagram Type 3. Now, let’s get into gift giving!

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For the Wine Lover

Work From Home Edition

Stocking Stuffers for Her

For the Coffee Lover

For the Enneagram Type 3

Happy gifting!!

XOXO – Katie <3

The Life of Katie!

Now that Thanksgiving is over, I am oh so excited that Christmas is officially in full swing! Personally, I have ALWAYS been a sucker for Christmas time and am ecstatic that it is December, too. Currently, my life has been crazy and overbooked but in a good way. After last year with COVID-19 pretty much shutting everything down, this year is the year to go all out and do it all. In the meantime, here are some updates into my life and all that’s been going on with me.

  • Overbooking – Nowadays, I pretty much have at least one thing a day in terms of events. I have some exciting collaborations, blog posts, and events as well as some trips coming up that it’s ALL so so so exciting. My events and things that I’m doing are so fun and it’s nice that my work is seemingly lightening up on at least one of my projects for the month of December, too. While overbooking is a lot for some, I see it as a good thing if you make it that. Life is all about what you make it, and you must make it rock as Miley Cyrus would say in Hannah Montana – hah! Though overwhelming, I like to go big or go home when it comes to the holidays and I am glad that I will be!
  • Virginia Wine Pass – the other day, I logged onto Groupon and found an amazing deal for a 2022 Virginia Wine Pass. Let’s just say that my excitement was over the moon. The Virginia Wine Pass includes discounts and deals for you and your guests when visiting several vineyards across the state of Virginia. As a proud Virginia resident, I am so excited to be able to visit not one but several vineyards in all parts of Virginia. A lot of them are day trips from my house which make it that more exciting and easy to do. Let’s just say that I have made a HUGE list of Virginia Wineries and Vineyards that I plan to visit in the new year!
  • Missing Travel – COVID-19 has halted many of our travel plans as we know it. I have made some trips within 4-5 hours away since the pandemic began and let’s just say that I really miss taking bigger trips. On the same token, I know that travel is a privilege and that many people in our world struggle to afford food and clothing, let alone taking the time and leisure to travel. So, my missing of travel is most definitely insignificant compared to others’ needs. I am hoping in the new year to take some bigger trips in the states and potentially abroad. But, in the meantime, I am hoping that no more variants spread such as the current variants that others get sick, especially if they can’t afford to be sick or take off of work or school.
  • Shopping Secondhand – In recent times, I have decided to shop secondhand more often than not. My local thrift store has so many good deals and it’s fun to be able to shop ALL of the deals! In fact, I used to shop secondhand a bunch in high school and I had a blast with it. When I moved to Raleigh for college, I never really found a thrift store that I liked with the prices and brands that I love aka the bargains. Thrifting is also super sustainable, too. I am so so so glad that I have gotten back into it now that I am living near the thrift store that I LOVED in high school. Over the past few weeks, I found and bought items from brands such as J McLaughlin, J Crew, Calvin Klein, Boden, Talbots, and Vera Bradley. Overall, thrifting is the best of both worlds – sustainable and affordable!

Life has been hectic but good at the same time. Above all else, remember that social media is only a highlight reel and everyone’s life is NOT perfect. The same idea goes for my blog posts and my blogging platform here.

XOXO – Katie <3